In this episode of Behavioral Profit, Executive Behavioral Coach Debbie Longo talks with Eric Staples, Director of Growth Strategy at Blue Dog and creator of StoryCraft, about why presentations and pitches are less about “telling a story” and more about making an exchange. Eric unpacks the Head, Heart, Gut model for understanding decision-making styles, explains how behavior-driven systems can shape beliefs, and reveals the one mindset shift leaders can try this week to improve both outcomes and relationships. Whether you’re leading a team, pitching an idea, or navigating personal relationships, this conversation will help you connect, influence, and create real momentum.
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Welcome back to The Behavioral Profit, the podcast
where we decode the human side of business growth.
I'm your host, Debbie Longo, executive behavioral
coach. And each week we dive into the mindset
shifts, leadership strategies, and cultural behaviors
that drive higher performance and greater profits.
Whether you're leading a team or building a business,
this is just space to learn how human behavior
fuels business success. Today I'm joined by Eric
Staples, Director of Growth Strategy and Blue
Dog and the architect behind Storycraft, an audience
impact and influence training that turns complex
human insights into on the ground, moment of
driving habits. For about two decades, Eric has
shown organizations how to supplement belief
-driven slogans with behavior -driven systems
that really stick, and help their teams and brands
get unstuck. In this episode, he'll unpack why
storytelling is often the wrong lens for thinking
about presentations and pitches. And there are
really only three kinds of people in the world,
and how just a little bit of insight can unlock
a whole lot of impact. Good afternoon, Eric.
Welcome to the show. Thanks, Debbie. Good to
be here. Thanks. Is there anything that you would
like to add to that intro? No, I think you nailed
it. I think in particular, the notion of behavior
-driven systems is key, which I know is a huge
part of your focus on this podcast. Yes, that
was very good. Thank you very much. So there's
three topics and some discussion after that.
So the first topic is the exchange mindset, transforming
every interaction into mutual value. Yeah, that
one is really key. And it's it's the grounding
of for Blue Dog, all the things that we do, in
particular, the organizational upskilling that
I lead across a number of different trainings.
You mentioned storycraft, and that's sort of
the cornerstone training. And in particular,
that one, although it is storycraft, that's what
it's named. It's a bit of a. almost a bait and
switch because it's less about sort of classical
storytelling tips and tropes the kind of things
you would expect to find if you googled storytelling
training or storytelling how to be a great storyteller
and it has more in common with the fundamentals
of negotiation if you were to take like a 301
negotiation course, you'd see some similar principles
applied a bit differently, but like -minded.
And that's because at Blue Dog, anyway, we believe
that everything is an exchange, every professional
interpersonal interaction, whether it's a presentation,
a pitch, a workshop, or even just a quick, like,
incidental one -on -one hallway conversation.
It's an exchange. You're seeking something from
the person or people you're talking to, which
means they need something from you in order to
give you that. And what I've found is that moving
from a mindset of, I've got a story to tell,
I've got a message to give, I've got an outcome
to ensure... which are not wrong ideas, but they're
not the first idea. The first idea is there's
an exchange to be made. What is that exchange?
How is that exchange made? That's the most effective
starting point. Thank you very much. I appreciate
that. Just to comment on one thing that you said,
what I do is one of the reasons why I do this
podcast, The Behavioral Profit, is to showcase
and present different industries, careers, and
when I do that, that allows somebody that is
in this type of industry or maybe wanting to
get into it, compare and be able to maybe identify
or just be curious about how does the behavior
relate to this industry. And that's why I ask
for the topics and the questions that the guests
wants, because it's about, well, first of all,
it's the show for the guests. It's not the show
for me. So even though I'm hosting it, but the
point is the reason why it's the show for the
guests is because I'm trying to get more focus
on this specific type of industry. which is why
I don't only focus on one thing on one aspect.
And when I do that, because I'm focusing on the
behavior and the personality and what happens
in this. Industry in this job in this career,
and I'm trying to get as many listeners an overview
of all different types of audiences that maybe
somebody some something somebody can relate to
and maybe they can identify with that or Maybe
they're just curious whatever the situation is
it could be a million different situations So
the basically I'm trying to get the broad range
That's kind of basically the thing So the other
topics that we're talking about here, you know,
we're gonna get into this but this exchange model
is very interesting because I am Maybe exchanging
something for something and my exchanging one
type of mindset for another am I exchanging a
negative for a positive? So if I go to the store,
I want to buy something I have to pay for it
With money, that's an exchange. I'm giving them
money and they're giving me something. But there's
also an exchange with mindset. I know you talked
about a different thing. Well, similar. I'm trying
to get, you know, similar to what you're talking
about. But when I read this and when I listen
to you, this is kind of what I get from it. And
I think to a point that I think you are speaking
to, this is the universal truth. There always
is an exchange. You're always wanting something,
and that means you always need to give something.
And I think that is one of the biggest misses
in corporate America in particular, the spaces
that I work in, is one of two things happens.
Either the person just instinctively goes in
and says, here's what I'm trying to get out of
this and doesn't think about the other side of
that exchange, or equally unhelpfully they say,
this is what they need to hear from me. and they're
not thinking about it as an exchange either.
I think even most simply, I was just doing a
training for a client an hour ago, right before
this, around what we'll talk about soon, this
head -heart -gut model. And even there, although
I was giving them information, what I wanted
from them and needed from them was their attention
and their engagement. And so if I walk in and
say I want their attention and their engagement,
what do I need to give them in order to get those
things from them? That changes my mindset. It
changes the way I even might measure my success
in that situation. If I just walk in and say
I'm the messenger, they need to listen to what
I have to say, I'm missing out on the bulk of
the actual equation that will drive something
meaningful out of that exchange. Yes, that was
good. Thank you. Okay, so let's talk about the
head heart gut model and an overview of that
and what that exactly means It's my favorite
tool of all tools. It's something that we at
Blue Dog use in essentially every meeting every
conversation and you already tee this up Debbie
a moment ago There are essentially reductively
but not inaccurately three kinds of people in
the world. That's the assertion and heart and
gut people This is not new news, necessarily
this notion of head, heart, gut, intelligences
or the three brains, different kinds of decision
-making filters. But what's different about the
way that we treat it is most of what you would
read if you were to pick up Forbes or HBR or
a leadership development book says to be an effective
leader or even an effective person, you need
to know when to lean into your head, when to
lean into your heart, when to lean into your
gut, which is true. But not particularly helpful
because none of us have equal propensities or
fluidities across those three spaces and all
of us have a set of defaults in one of them.
I've been using this tool for. in both the corporate
side and growth consulting and as a growth coach
for individuals and teams, this is the number
one tool behind them. And I've yet to meet anyone
across hundreds and hundreds of people that didn't
have a default, a way that they prefer to process
information, navigate decisions, et cetera. And
the thing that I want your audience to hear from
that is if you don't know what your defaults
are, and what your audience's defaults are, then
you could be talking right past each other and
fundamentally not understanding what each other
are needing out of that exchange. And so that
heart and gut, and there's a whole model behind
it, and I'm not going to go into the depths of
unpacking it here, but it's essentially a shortcut
to emotional intelligence and audience empathy.
And you can imagine the last thing I'll say before
I take a little pause. and the breather is you
can imagine what those things mean. I mean, heads
have a particular tendency towards logic and
reason, and hearts have a tendency. They tend
to compass or center around belief, conviction,
connection. Guts sort of center their decision
-making in instinct, progress, movement. Those
are different things. Those are different sets
of needs and a different set of value, actually,
that is really helpful to understand if you're
going to be working with people and certainly
really important to understand if you're looking
to impact and influence people. Does that check
out? I mean, you've talked to a lot of people.
Can you see those patterns yourself? Yes, definitely.
And that was very good. But I think maybe I know
you just it's an overview. So you described it
briefly. So I'm sure there's more to it than
this. But my emotions. And my thinking and my
behavior, number one, can be adjusted. Like we
just talked about the exchange, negative, positive,
whatever it is. I don't really, I don't know
if this is about what this is, but I don't really
want to have one thing control me. or overpower
another thing. So one part of my personality,
right, overpowers another part, or empathy might
overpower me being fearful. So I want to try
to make it as even as possible, like an even
swap kind of thing. And if I could do that, so
one would be like doing something to excess.
I'm doing too much of one thing, like I'm too
empathetic all the time with everything. And
then it turns out then like I find that one thing
will wind up controlling another thing So one
part of your behavior will wind up controlling
another part and then there's a lot of issues
with that Not only that that just that is a problem
within itself But then there's a lot of things
that could happen because I might be because
I'm emphasizing one part more, right? Then there
are issues around me, the way other people react
and stuff. That could be a little bit overbearing.
And then one person says, why are you this way?
The other day you were not this way. So that's
why it could be a lot of, a lot of issues with
that. So I don't know if that has anything to
do with it, but that was what I was thinking
when you were talking. Yeah, and I think that's
a great reason to not live within the default
limitations and default momentum that these centers
do naturally create. What you're speaking to
is actually why it's so important to surface
these things, but also realize the limitations
of our ability to just immediately be the well
-run of people we want to be. The point of head,
heart, gut as a model of understanding the decision
-making tendencies and momentums of different
kinds of people is to help us make those things
visible so that we can value the things that
are really helpful for me as a head. I have value
to add that is different than the value of my
coworker Jake, that is different than the value
of our CEO Shannon, who's a heart and a gut respectively.
So I can understand that actually those represent
different dimensions of decisional value. Between
these things, reason, logic, thinking, that's
the head. Connection, beliefs, conviction, that's
the heart. Instinct, value, progress, that's
the gut. Which of those could we cross off in
an important decision? None. Which of those is
most important in an important decision? That
actually depends on the decision itself. And
so one of the things that I dislike about a lot
of typing tools, like, for example, Myers -Briggs,
they have a love -hate relationship with that,
is because it tends to separate. And it says
reductively, I'm an introvert. You're an extrovert.
And that's why we we can't quite ever fully reconcile.
This says the opposite. It says I do have tendencies
because of how I'm hardwired. That's good. That's
that's what I need to know how to use those tendencies
well and know what limitations they create. And
ultimately, I think Debbie to your exact point
over time become as well rounded as I could possibly
be. My journey was I started off as a very immature
head. And I used to say this, you will either
laugh or roll your eyes. I used to say, I don't
have opinions, I have data, and there are implications.
Hard stuff. It's a very immature thing to say,
a very naive thing to say, but that was my mental
map. Told me that's the way the world looked.
None of us see the territory for how it actually
is. We all see through the filters of our own
mental maps. This notion of head, heart, gut
is just the fastest way to get to the basic knowledge
of what the other person's mental map looks like.
So you can better connect and communicate with
them and better know how to pull the right kinds
of value from them. Sounds good. Yeah, very good.
One of the most interesting distinctions here,
Debbie, that I think when I play this out with
audiences, this is where it really raises the
eyebrows and, oh, that's interesting, is let's
imagine you've got a head, a heart, and a gut.
Head, a heart, and a gut walk into a bar. This
is not a joke. This is a illustrative scenario.
And they're trying to make a business decision
or trying to make any kind of major decision
that they're all equally invested in. And the
head says, well, this is the right answer. And
the heart says, no, I think this is the right
answer. And the gut says, no, you're both wrong.
This is clearly the right answer. The problem
isn't just a difference of opinion or a difference
of perspective, although those also are at play.
The problem could very well be that what a head
means when they say right is different than what
a head means when they say right different than
a gut. When a head says this is the right answer,
they mean it's true, logical. supportable. When
a heart says this is the right answer, they mean
it's good, it's desirable, it's beneficial, it's
helpful. When a gut says this is the right answer,
they mean it's valuable, it's useful, it'll move
the needle, it'll keep things rolling. Which
one of those is all three to some degree? And
so understanding how to decode some of the invisible
and implicit implications of even the same language
that is actually meaning to these people is I
find immensely, immensely helpful. Yeah, thank
you. Did you ever hear of the second brain? I
have a book on it. It's your gut. Oh, yeah, sure.
Oh, I have a book on it. It's very that that
I think is really interesting. There are actually
three brains. So the science behind this, which
is exactly what you're speaking to, Debbie, there
are neuronal clusters, as you said. in the gut
that are activated and involved in instinctual
decisions. Likewise, there are the same kinds
of neural clusters in the chest cavity area that
are activated and involved in emotional decision
making. Now, what I don't want you to hear me
saying is reducing these three types of people
to stereotypes. I mean, head, heart, gut is reductive
enough. I'm not saying that it's the logic ones,
the empathy ones, and the instinct ones. It's
a little more complex than that. Empathy, in
particular, is something that is a skill, not
an innate quality and characteristic that only
belongs to certain people. But it is an emotion
simulator. We're not saying that heads are the
non -emotional ones and hearts are the emotional
ones. But it is interesting, to your point, Debbie,
that there's actual science decision -making
science that backs up the fact that we operate
differently and even access different parts of
our biology when we make different kinds of decisions.
And all that we're saying, Blue Dog, as sort
of creators of this model, is that everyone's
going to have defaults and it's helpful to know
what those are so you can give people what they
need. Let me give you, if I can, one more quick
example of how this shows up. I talked about
what they mean. by right is completely different.
We can imagine too, what they're good at is different.
Heads are really good at things like process
and systems and strategy and methods. Arts are
really good at imagining possibilities and generating
enthusiasm and vision, mission, things like that.
And guts are really good at getting things done,
navigating the system, disrupting the system,
maneuvering tactics, et cetera. It's no surprise
then that guts tend to over index at higher levels
of leadership. The more you get things done,
the more in the ranks you grow. Now, what is
most human about this is what each of these head,
heart, gut fundamentally need from others is
also quite different. A head, at the end of the
day, most reductively, needs to feel that their
perspective is valid. That's what they're looking
for. A heart needs to feel that their person
is valued. And a gut... needs to feel that their
path is supported. Now you might say, and you'd
rightly say, everyone needs to feel that their
person is valued. Yes, but none more than hearts.
And frankly, if you're going to give positive
feedback to a head and you value their person,
value their person, they will receive that less
eagerly than if you say, that thing you said
two minutes ago was really super duper smart.
That's sort of a love language for the heads.
Likewise, I've talked to leaders that were gut
leaders that were some of the best people leaders
I've ever worked with. kind and pathetic. But
at the end of the day, what they really want
from the people around them is get on board with
what I'm trying to do because what I'm trying
to do is. And so if we don't know those fundamental
needs, and I've got story upon story that I won't
bore you with here, but we can talk right past
each other and not only not give each other what
we're needing, but actually rob each other of
what we're needing if we don't know those things.
Very true. All very good stuff. Next topic, behavior
systems versus belief systems. What does this
look like day to day? This is a active topic
of conversation at Blue Dog amongst the senior
leadership. We are sort of leads of different
practice areas, and we've been talking quite
a bit over the last even few months around. Chicken
or egg? What comes first and what's more influential
in actual adoption? And that's kind of what we
are talking about here all the time. Behavior
and ways of doing and even ways of thinking are
not just like concepts that float around and
we put them in or we put them on and now they're
ours. We adopt things. We integrate things into
our day -to -day behavior or we don't. We, as
you said, Debbie, we habitualize things or we
don't. and chicken or egg. What's more important,
habitualization and adoption, belief systems
or behavior systems? And I tend to think that
most behavioral science at least directionally
supports or indicates this, that behaviors are
more important in creating an adoption than beliefs.
And moreover, while beliefs will create behaviors.
For sure, something that is overlooked and oftentimes
even more formative and powerful is that behaviors
will create beliefs. And so don't hear me say
you can do without one or the other. But do hear
me say most, not just organizations, but most
human institutions have sort of a unspoken, unchecked
assumption that beliefs create behavior exclusively,
that that's the direction of the line. And I
want to say actually some of the most formative
forces in our lives are behaviors. that start
to create our beliefs or at least they entrench
our beliefs. And you can know that because I'm
sure you've talked to many people and you have
yourself been a person who said they believe
something, but their behavior indicates something
very different. I believe I am a confident strategist,
but I'm up there shaken during the presentation.
That means I really believe something different
and my behavior is showing it. And the more you
can behave, I mean, that's another way to say
fake it till you make it, behave in the direction
you want to believe. the more that belief gets
actually humanly entrenched in our psyche, which
is where it needs to reside for us to truly adopt
any new habit. Yeah, that's interesting. So you
wrote versus indicating that it's the opposite,
not similar. But you explained how one thing
goes into the other and the reason why we have
one thing. Yeah. But the comment that I want
to make is I feel that Sometimes, I guess just
for myself, it can work both ways, because if
I behave a certain way, I might or might not
believe that, that that is a fact of belief,
which really isn't a fact, but to me it is. But
then if I believe something, I might not behave
that way. I might or might not. So to me, that
might depend on not really my personality, but
maybe the way that I feel that day. My mood,
it might not be something that I permanently
believe or don't believe, but maybe there's a
lot of things that might change my decision or
the way that I think. So to me, it could work
both ways. But I always think, too, of the environment.
around me, the people around me. And are they
going to accept what I'm going to say? Are they
going to accept what I believe, what my behavior
is now or is going to be? Okay. Maybe a family
member, like an immediate family member or a
child. So my environment and my community also,
might want to accept that or might not. And I
might believe something or say that I do just
to satisfy my family. Let's say, for example,
I might not believe it or I might not know if
I believe it or not. A behavior is one thing
to me because people can affect my behavior,
of course. But to me, that's a little bit more
deeper into it. But if I believe something, I
might not necessarily believe it. But if the
people around me believe it, and then I might
just say that I believe it for like a hundred
different reasons. Well, I think that actually
is a good example of exactly the distinction
that I'm driving. And to your point a moment
ago, the verses is not about opposed ideas, it's
about distinct ideas. And my provocation is not
at all that it only works one way. It does. These
things work together completely. My provocation
is actually, especially in the corporate world,
there's a whole half of that that is almost entirely
missing. The assumption, often unspoken, but
the assumption is if you just get everyone to
believe the right things and believe in the same
ways, then they will do the behavior you're seeking.
I'm here to tell you behavioral science would
say something different. Behavioral science would
say the belief without the behavior, we can't
really know that that's a belief. And a belief
with the behavior will actually reinforce the
belief. And so I think there's a colloquialism.
You want to know what someone actually believes?
Look at how they behave. Why that's important.
And Debbie, I think this is, you tee this up
quite a bit in the things that you do and the
way that you talk. Incentivized organizations
need to be incentivizing behaviors. as much if
not more as they are reinforcing beliefs. If
the reinforced beliefs, I don't care how many
times you say here are our values and here's
our purpose and here's our all the other belief
systems that an organization will have, doesn't
matter how many times you reference those things
and reinforce those things, if you are not incentivizing
the behaviors that should flow from those things,
then you're leaving it at a concept and concepts
don't actually change. situations, cultures,
et cetera. Concepts don't, behaviors do, quite
to your point. Yeah, I agree. Thank you for that.
Lightning round, biggest misconception about
decision making. I'm actually with a coworker
right now finishing a whole training round decision
making, and it's called the seven ditches of
decision making and how to avoid them. because
I think that's the biggest misconception. People
think, or at least they desire, the right way
to make a decision, or the right ways to make
a decision. And sadly, there is no right or best
or single way to make a decision. But there are,
we think, seven ways to echo. And so if you can
avoid the ditches of decision making, and some
of that is emotional intelligence, some of it
is default thinking, some of it is et cetera.
So there are seven of them, of course. Maybe
that's for another podcast in the future. If
you can avoid the ditches, then oftentimes anywhere
in the road, which can be multiple decisions,
multiple paths, is probably good enough. And
that kind of coincides with this notion that
was really transformative to me when I first
heard it, status ficing. Are you familiar with
that phrase, status ficing? That's great. Most
of us are looking at how we measure the success
of our decisions in terms of like, it has to
be a perfect outcome. It has to be exactly what
I'm looking for. And that is most likely to lead
us to being disappointed, even if we made a good
decision, because almost nothing will work out
exactly perfectly. And so here again, you'll
hear me. say behavioral scientists a lot because
they're kind of my heroes, but behavioral scientists
would say status -ficing, which is a morphine
between satisfying and sufficing, a satisfaction
that is sufficient enough to be a box check.
That's what your measure should be. And if you
take those two things, that there's no one way
to make a decision, but there are some ways to
wreck decisions, And whatever you do, don't look
for perfection. Look for satisficing in your
success metrics. You'll find yourself way happier
with your decisions and much more confident in
your decision making over time. Yeah, that was
good. Thank you. I definitely agree with that.
And to me, that's a solid way. Making a decision
rather than a hundred other ways. Just thinking
about it and making a quick decision, not getting
it through. Well, to that point, I know this
is a lightning round and I'm slowing down the
storm here, but that also is part of our decision
-making training is this head, heart, gut model,
because those are defaults. And you know what?
A gut should know that they're going to feel
most comfortable and most satisfied making a
gut decision. And they're also going to need
to do the limitations of that and the situations
in which that's not the best idea. Meanwhile,
a head. That's me again, needs to know that yes,
a long robustly research pros and cons list can
be helpful. That's the way that I want to make
a decision, but we don't always have time for
that. And so even that know where you lean and
know what you need to watch out for and then
make the decision as fast as possible to your
point. Yes, perfect. Thank you. One prime behavior
shift leaders can try this week. Well, Debbie,
I'm going to steal from you. You had a sort of
opening offer for this that I think is one of
the greatest things I've ever heard for a try
it for a week exercise. So I'm just going to
read the suggestion you had and vehemently agree
with it. Experiment for a week even. I think
you could see results in a week, even better
if you do it for a month. And maybe the heads
out there in the audience would say, let me get
some data for a longer trial period, but treat
every professional interaction as an exchange.
Not as a, I need them to hear this or I need
to get this from them, but Give and take what
do they need from me? What do I need from them
and ask yourself and maybe even ask the other
person very directly what they need in this interaction
to make this successful and then do everything
you possibly can as you said everything feasible
to provide that thing to them and then see see
the difference in and I love you said both of
these Debbie in both outcomes and Relationships.
I love that. I think that's the Wonderful experiment.
I guarantee if everyone listening right now did
that Everyone would see a significant change
in their efficacy and their enjoyment as well.
I love that idea Yeah, and what about doing something
out of the box? doing these things that we're
not familiar with and We don't want to do them
and we don't know there's a fear of the unknown
We don't know if it's going to produce results
and what the outcome is and might work out. It
might not. Yeah. So. But I want to do if I do
an experiment. And you said it exactly the way
that I wrote it. But I want to do an experiment
or try something new. I want to just do it because
if I think and I overthink it and I'm thinking
and thinking, then it just not only I probably
took myself out of it. But I might not get a
positive outcome of it because I'm not focusing
on what it is and what the goal is and what it
really is. I'm just saying, making something
up or just saying, I don't know if it's going
to work or not. And then I'm turning it into
something it's completely not. Yeah. I mean,
interestingly, this is a total aside for fun.
It sounds like, and one can be diagnosed by other
people, but it sounds like you might be a gut.
That sounded like some gut -ish sort of tendencies,
which is interesting. I want to reinforce two
things that you just alluded to. The first is,
and this goes back to the point of this whole
experiment for a week, look, if you want to get
someone on your side, the very best thing you
can do is first get on their side. That is...
every negotiation professional will tell you
that. And so how do you get on someone's side?
Asking questions, putting yourself in their shoes.
You can almost never get someone on your side
without first getting on their side. So that's
just an interesting corollary to this. And then
the second thing that is within something you
just said is there's a myth. This blew my mind
when I first heard this. There's a myth that
people fear change. People don't fear change.
They fear loss. And the problem is times of change
represent greater likelihoods of loss. So here
again, if you are in a tense situation, that
is still going to be an exchange. But you put
yourself in the other person's shoes and you
see fear operating. Maybe it's because they're
self promoting or self protecting. And that's
what we do when we're afraid. You see fear operating.
Don't look at that and say, oh, that person is
behaving badly, say that person is sending a
signal that there's a fear here. What is that
fear? How can I help them with that fear? How
can I come alongside them and help actually manage
that fear? And I'll tell you what, that is a
really empowering truth for both you and the
other person, because sitting there and saying
people fear change, there's nothing you can do
about that. Granting gut through it, but knowing
that people actually fear loss, that's something
we can do. Something with both with and for each
other and I think that's really powerful Yeah,
so just one closing comment that I want to make
so we talk about the workplace in my podcast
but in a lot of them I Transfer that what you
do and how you think and how you act the workplace
can go into your personal life, your home life,
into your community, your friends, your neighbors.
And I think this was a discussion that we just
had that can work both ways. And we just talked
about it generally. We didn't necessarily say
one time, I think we did during this whole podcast
that it was about the workplace, different things.
So if you're a listener, maybe you could relate
to this, maybe not. But Just think about if you
want to continue to listen to it, just think
about where that's going to relate to you, whether
it's the workplace or your home specific situation
you're in. Because this, I think, can work with
anything. It doesn't matter what it is. Because
all of the things we're talking about are human
constructs and concepts. I couldn't agree more,
Debbie. And in fact, like I said, I just had
a training on this exact model, this head, heart,
gut model this afternoon. And invariably and
inevitably people say, oh, this explains a lot
about my marriage or my partnership. We had one
person tell us stories like I'm a head. My husband
is a gut and my daughter is a heart. And this
actually helps unlock why we are oftentimes in
completely different directions. It's not because
we can't come together on things. It's because
we are actually viewing the world through different
maps and different lenses. And that's actually
a good thing. That's a good and valuable thing
if we harness it correctly. So yeah, I couldn't
agree more. Yeah, that was good. Thank you. Is
there anything you would like to say in closing?
It was just a real pleasure talking to you and
thanks for giving me a little bit of a space
to share some of these things that I really,
really love a lot and really passionate about.
Yeah, sure. Thank you for being on the show.
How can they get in touch with you? BlueDogDesign
.com is a great way to see kind of the full spectrum
of the things we do as an organization. Eric,
eric at BlueDogDesign .com is my direct email
if there's something you're interested in hearing
or learning more about. And in fact, Debbie,
I'll maybe shoot you a few images, screen grabs
from the presentations so that you could post
them up for your listeners. And that way, as
they're kind of listening, they could have a
little bit of visual reference material, which
I know always helps in learning. Perfect. Thank
you for being on the show. I appreciate it. Thank
you