In this episode of The Behavioral Profit Podcast, host Debbie Longo is joined by Richard Reid — internationally recognized psychologist, wellbeing consultant, and author of Charisma Unlocked.
With over 20 years of experience, Richard shares powerful insights from his work with elite organizations like the London Underground, the City of London Police, and the Witness Protection Program. From trauma recovery and resilience to charisma-driven leadership, Richard offers actionable strategies to help leaders build psychologically safe environments where trust, confidence, and growth thrive.
We explore:
Whether you're a senior executive, entrepreneur, or aspiring leader, this conversation will shift how you think about influence, safety, and performance at the highest levels.
Grab Richard’s new book: Charisma Unlocked on Amazon
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Welcome to the behavioral profit show where business
meets behavior. I'm your host Debbie Longo, executive
behavioral coach. And each week we dive into
mindset leadership strategies and cultural behaviors
that drive higher performance and greater profits
with you leading a team and building a business.
This is just the space to learn how human behavior
fuels business success. We have a very special
guest today, Richard Reed. Richard, would you
like to tell your story a little bit? Thank you
very much for being on the show. Hi, Debbie.
Thanks for having me today. So I'm a psychologist
by trade. I'm also a leadership coach and an
organizational consultant. So I really help.
individuals and organisations that are going
from either they're having difficulties or they
just want to up the game and improve their performance.
So all of those kinds of things. I guess the
areas I particularly specialise in are things
like resilience and trauma, but also things like
organisational well -being. And then the other
thing is charisma. So I've recently just released
a book talking about charisma. It's called Charisma
Unlocked. It's all about how we connect with
people, how we use our verbal, non -verbal communication
in order to get the best from interactions with
people. Okay, so I have a few questions here.
The first question is background and expertise.
Richard has over 20 years experience as a psychologist,
coach, and wellbeing consultant. What inspired
you to pursue this career path and how did your
journey begin? Yeah, so I came to it a little
bit later. So I originally worked within IT as
a consultant and didn't really enjoy the technical
part of it. It was really the people part that
I enjoyed. And I took a year out from work to
go traveling around the world to decide what
I wanted to do. And towards the end of that trip,
which was about 12 months in length, I met a
well psychiatrist when I was in Patagonia and
we ended up sharing a tent and we were talking
about what we were doing while we were traveling.
And I mentioned that I was looking to change
careers and he said, have you ever thought about
training as a psychologist? So I started to look
into it when I got back to the UK, started training
in that. And eventually I made the transition
to being a psychologist, working with individuals.
And the area of London that I was working at
that time, a lot of people I was working with
were owners of businesses or very senior in businesses
and they could see the value that they were getting
from working with me on a one -to -one basis
and they start to introduce me into their organizations.
And that's when I start to get more involved
and so the consultants who work and looking at
how it is that organizations can prosper and
thrive as well. Very nice. So you just jumped
right into it. You had that opportunity and it
worked out great for you. And then you learned
a little bit more than you didn't know from the
beginning. Absolutely. So you kind of learn as
you go. And for me, it's always been about sort
of diving in there and learning through experience.
Very, very good. I like that because in this.
podcast, the show that I do, one of the reasons
why I do it is I do all different people from
all different industries having to do with business.
So I want to get as much of a variety as I can
because more that I get than somebody goes on
a podcast and they have that same type of experience
or that same industry, then they can really relate.
to it, and then they can say, this gentleman
did this, this woman did this, and I can do that
too. So it's a matter of inspiration. Some of
them are negative, but I'm trying to help people
that might need help. So it's good. I did a few
that people came out of the other side. It's
always good to show people that there are opportunities
that exist. And those opportunities are always
there. It's just a matter of whether I want to
take it or not, because you didn't have to take
it. I didn't have to take any opportunity that
I had in my future. And everything worked out
for me. It worked out for you, too. It takes
a bit of courage, because if you wait for things
to be exactly perfect, you could be waiting a
long time. It's making those sort of calculated
risks, isn't it? Yeah. It's just a gamble. That's
just how business is. The next question, trauma
and resilience. You specialize in trauma, resilience,
and psychological safety. Can you share a pivotal
moment in case study that shaped your approach
to these areas? I think when I started out doing
what I was doing, I guess that's a lot of people
do when they start their career. You're very
sort of idealistic about how things work. When
I was working with individuals or with organizations
thinking, right, this is how we need to tackle
it. And the people that I'm dealing with, they're
all on board. They're all here surely because
they want to work through these things. But what
I found was that, yes, some people were there
because it's absolutely things that they wanted
to address. Other people were there. because
it was a last resort, or they were there and
they were lacking in confidence that the process
would work, or they were there because they'd
been told to be there. And so this is where,
when you work with individuals, it's really important
to kind of recognise where they are, rather than
making assumptions that everybody's there for
the same reasons. And that's really where the
psychological safety element comes in. When we're
talking with people, it's about creating that
space and that dynamic that means that people
feel confident. to acknowledge what they're genuinely
thinking or feeling. Because when you understand
more about what they're genuinely thinking or
feeling, even if it's not necessarily what you
want to hear, it gives you something tangible
to start to work with. Whereas if you're trying
to pitch something at a level that people aren't
ready for, trying to move things along quicker
than they're ready for, then you get that resistance,
you get that hesitation, and you don't get the
buy into what you're doing. So with everything
that I do, whether it's working with an individual
to overcome some psychological difficulty or
whether it's organizational change, it's really
about recognizing What's the appetite for change?
What are the resistance to change? And how is
it that you can work with people to create an
environment where they feel confident to acknowledge
that and they feel you're going to validate and
support that? So that's really been the basis
of everything that I've done. And I guess a lot
of the work that I do around resilience is about
making people feel comfortable acknowledging
mistakes, acknowledging difficulties, because
I think when we acknowledge them, again, it's
an opportunity for learning. So rather than beating
people up about mistakes or people feeling guilty
about their mistakes, when we can absorb those
into the learning, whether that's with an individual
or with an organization, then you accelerate
the opportunities for growth and improvement.
That's one of the things I do too, because I
recognize that it's a process. So when I work
with people, I want to make sure that I go slow
and before I do something right when I'm about
to do it, that they fully understand and then...
They know beforehand like a few days before a
week before and that gives them food for thought
so that way it's give them time. To think about
it and to adjust to it that way when we get to
the scenario or process then they're ready for
it but if they're not then they're not. Can i
just say okay when then we move on those are
very good things to talk about. because these
are just, to me, everyday issues that people
have. Totally. High -profit clients. You've worked
with organizations like the London Underground,
the City of London Police, and the Witness Protection
Program. What unique challenges do these environments
present, and how do you address them? I guess
in some ways this points back to what we've just
spoken about. I think in those kind of environments,
you've got people dealing with really serious
issues. with issues that often generate trauma
responses. But I guess even when people are struggling,
they quite match our environments. People don't
want to acknowledge when they've got a problem.
And when they're coming to you, it's very rarely
is it voluntarily. A lot of times it's because
the wheels have really fallen off or they're
being told, you've got to go and do this because
there's a performance issue, you're going to
lose your job and it's related to something that
may have happened within the work environment.
So again, it's really about, I guess it's about
motivational interviewing. It's about recognising
again where people are, making them feel comfortable
to acknowledge where they are with things. But
also, I guess as part of that, normalizing their
experience. When people are going through things
like severe trauma, which is often the case when
you're in the police or you're working with the
underground, there's all kinds of things that
happen. The difficulty of the traumatic experience,
but then there's also the stigma around it. People
don't like to speak up when they feel they've
got a psychological problem. Or maybe they're
having symptoms that they can't explain. And
there's a level of anxiety that that generates.
So sometimes even just getting to acknowledge
what's going on for them in an authentic way,
validating their experience, and also normalizing
it. So actually this is normal for where you
are in the process. It helps to take some of
the anxiety out of it. And again, when you can
build that rapport with people, that provides
a solid platform for them to start to make change.
If you don't have that rapport and that understanding,
then you're on sort of a shaky ground. Yeah,
I agree. These people they have like you said
we talked about that in the question before and
sometimes like in my experience if somebody has
that. For a while it's which lot of times that's
the case it's difficult to really get out of
that so it's a little bit more challenging it's
not a big deal but. Then to work with just somebody
who has a problem or business owner or whatever.
Just have minor things. Then people come to me
and they say that therapy doesn't work. They
went to therapy for these things and we have
talk therapy and stuff here. Yeah, we they went
to therapy for these things and it doesn't work
and a lot of people seek alternate therapy for
these types of things and. like coaches and all
different. There's tons of alternate therapies
besides like a regular therapist, like a talk
therapist. This is the challenge, isn't it? When
you're struggling, it's probably the worst time
to be trying to understand how it all works,
isn't it? It's a broad church coaching and therapies,
and there's a lot of different types of as you
say. And if you don't know much about it, it's
not a great time to be starting to research it
when you're already feeling vulnerable. Often
you are dealing with people who've had these
sort of experiences and it doesn't work. So again,
you're dealing with that level of resistance
and you've got to sort of get them on board before
you do anything constructive. I agree. As a charisma
coach, you help people unlock their full potential.
What are the key traits of charismatic individuals
and the charisma be learned or it is? in me.
Yeah, so I think with charisma, there's a lot
of sort of myths around it. A lot of people think
that charisma is something you're either born
with or you're not born with it. A lot of people
think charisma is just about being the loudest,
most entertaining person in the room. And it
can be about that. But actually, based on my
experience, based upon the work and the research
that I've done, actually, I firmly believe that
anybody can develop their charisma and actually
charisma comes in lots of shapes and sizes. So
even if you're quite a quiet, retiring person,
there can be things about your uniqueness that
make you charismatic. And a lot of the time,
we hide the best parts of ourselves because they're
different to other people. And as a result, we
don't allow ourselves the opportunity to validate
those and see that actually people respond well
to it. So part of the work that I do is about
helping people to recognize their uniqueness,
get more confident with leaning into that and
showing that to the outside world. And it's really
about polishing the edges of that. So all of
us, however charismatic you might regard yourself
as being, there's always room for improvement
in terms of your verbal and your non -verbal
communication. The biggest thing is how we manage
our internal world. If you're not aware of and
able to manage your internal emotions, you can
have all the skills and techniques in the world
but you're going to apply them at the wrong times,
you're not going to have the spare mental capacity
to recognise what's going on for other people
or indeed what it is that you're giving out to
other people. So first of all, building that
solid foundation of managing your own emotions
gives you capacity to make choices. What does
this situation need? What parts of myself do
I need to bring to bear to get the best possible
outcomes for both myself and the other people
that are involved in this interaction? So it's
really, a lot of it is around emotional intelligence
and communication, really. I never heard of that
term, charisma coach. I like it. Yeah, you know,
it's kind of one of those things. It's kind of
people either love it or hate it, but it definitely
sparks a response from people. Similar to the
last few questions that we spoke about. If I
want to recognize my full potential, to me that's
something that has to come from within for the
most part. I can kind of maybe have somebody
else as an influence or a mentor, but it really
creates really a strong willingness and to learn
how to really look search deep with inside myself.
in order for me to really know what my full potential
is, and that's only determined by me. Absolutely.
So you can't have somebody else impose that and
create that for you. Somebody like a coach can
help you to shine a light on what it is, but
it's only going to resonate when you recognize
it for yourself. And that's where your motivation
is going to come from. When you recognize what
your brand is and what you aspire for your brand
to be, then you're going to have the confidence
and the willingness to want to lead into that.
And the coach is there really just to support
you in that and hold you accountable for making
those changes. Exactly. But my view is my clients
tell me most of the time, they dictate a lot
to me what they want to do, what they're thinking,
because I can only go by what they say. I can't
really find. Exactly. It's a partnership, isn't
it? It's not about one side dictating the process.
And I think a lot of the time, We inherently
know when we're not fulfilling our potential
because we feel frustrated. We think, well, look,
I've seen myself do this another time. I've done
it really well. Or something tells me I'm capable
of more than I'm doing at the moment. So a lot
of clients know that. And it's the frustration
with the gap between what they see and what they
experience day to day. And again, that's kind
of where a coach can come in to help them bridge
that gap. Charisma is a tool for psychological
safety. You often highlight the link between
charisma and psychological safety. How can leaders
use charismatic traits like presence, warmth
and confidence to increase environments where
team members feel safe to speak up and take risks?
Charisma is a really important component of psychological
safety. And again, when we talk about charisma,
we tend to think about what about it has been
a performance that we're We're the brightest
light in the room. We're dominating the conversation.
And that can make you impressive, but it doesn't
actually create safety for other people. And
you see this with a lot of leaders, charismatic
or dominant leaders, is that they are the loudest
dominant voice in the room, and it cries other
people out. And the risk with that is that you
don't allow other people to fulfill their potential,
but also you create an echo chamber. People end
up telling you what they think you want to hear.
And the risk with that is people start to disengage.
People feel less capable. So it doesn't matter
how capable you are, if you feel you're not being
recognized, you go backwards in effect. So you
want to be charismatic as a leader. There's lots
of things you can do. But I think the first thing
to do is to show humility and curiosity for other
people's positions. So it doesn't matter how
impressive you might be, show an interest in
other people's positions. Even if you don't necessarily
understand them or you think that they're flawed,
that curiosity makes people more confident. It
makes them more able to express themselves in
a way that actually you might learn something.
And it's not just about listening, it's about
the kind of questions we ask. When we ask open
-ended questions, we're encouraging people to
say more and to expand. So either we can change
our view or we can find a way of aligning their
view and our views. Or sometimes we can then
help them to better understand where their thinking
is flawed. But one of the ways in which we do
that is also to create space. So when somebody
says something, not to immediately dive in. So
sometimes a pause is really useful because some
of the things people are saying, they're saying
them for the first time. So because it's been
in their head, it's the first time they've said
it out loud, they may not be fully confident
what they're saying. They might want to qualify
or change what they've said. Whereas if we immediately
hold them to account for the first thing that
comes out of their mouth, then they may panic.
They may not fully express themselves. We may
not fully understand what it is that they're
saying. So slowing these conversations down through
the kind of questions we ask, through pausing,
speaking more slowly, all of these things make
people feel more confident. feel more capable
and feel more able to speak up when they have
different ideas, when they don't understand,
when they've made a mistake. And again, how we
react to those things is really, really important.
If we chastise people that we dismissive, they're
not going to feel confident speaking up again.
So being supportive, being patient is really,
really important. And being humble, telling other
people when we've made a mistake, telling other
people when we don't understand, asking the people
for their view before we offer our view, all
of these things. elevate other people and create
a more safe environment for people to express
what they're thinking that may actually change
our thinking or actually create extra innovation
within the organization in which we work, challenging
that status quo. Yeah, so I want as much information
as I can from the client because that will allow
me to help them more. So it's understanding before
you sort of start making judgment. And that the
psychological safety is important because not
only do I get the presence, the warmth and the
confidence, right? That will increase my chances
of being able to help the person. in the best
way that I can. Absolutely. My gifts go way beyond
what anybody knows and what anybody can vision,
even me. But I'm only able to get that and use
that until I get a lot of information. So that's
the thing. I can't use my abilities if I don't
get enough information or about their goals and
whatever, basically whatever is going on in their
minds. And that's why these things are so important.
Absolutely. Because otherwise you end up offering
suggestions and ideas that may not resonate with
them. And as a consequence, that's when you get
resistance or when people don't fully commit.
Charisma in hierarchical or high stress settings.
In high stakes field law enforcement or corporate
leadership, authority can sometimes stifle open
communication. How do you coach leaders to balance
their natural authority with the kind of charisma
that fosters psychological safety? Yeah, so I
guess this is a follow on for the last question
in some respects. I think some organizations
naturally lend themselves to sort of command
and control. You know, police enforcement is
a classic example of that. And it's not about
relinquishing that. because it's tried and tested,
it works. In extreme circumstances, you do just
need to tell people what to do because things
need to happen quickly. You don't want to debate
around it. But I think that doesn't have to be
all the time. Not everything is urgent. And so
I think this is where it's really important for
anybody, but particularly leaders, to be flexible
in their approach. Yes, it might be that your
environment lends itself to an authoritarian
way of managing. But it doesn't mean that that
has to happen every minute of every day. And
so actually, if we're flexible, it means that
we can start to use different aspects of our
personalities, different ways of interacting,
depending on what the circumstances demands.
So if it's urgent, absolutely, you just want
to tell people what to do. But sometimes it might
be about being innovative. It might be about
generating ideas. And then you might want a different
approach. And this is where creating psychological
safety is really important because you're effectively
giving people permission to speak up and say,
well, how about we do it this way? So we need
some of that, but clearly it needs to be kind
of horses for courses. You don't want, if you're
in the military, you don't want to having a debate
about what to do when you're in the middle of
a battle. You just want somebody to tell you
and you do it. But that's not all the time. So
having an organization or a team that understands
the parameters when it's okay to challenge and
when it's important to just follow the rules
is really, really important. And that comes about.
through creating a regular rhythm to your activities
so people can instinctively understand when it's
okay to challenge, when it's okay to just toe
the line. But also, if I'm in corporate leadership
or any type of position that I am advancing in
or I'm not familiar with, because at some point
I will grow into it, but I'm not born, I don't
go right into it. So it takes maybe a long time
and then that opens my ability to want more and
desire more for myself and help myself more and
also to me that's a good way to have open communication
because we go back to I want to be more of a
person than what I am. I want to achieve bigger
goals for myself than what I have now, or maybe
the goals that I have are not good enough. I
just want to keep going higher and higher. All
these little things that we've just been talking
about help this in all different ways, but it
really depends upon what's attractive to the
client. That's why, like I say, I do all these
different things, podcasts with all these different
industries and people talk about different things,
because there's got to be somebody out there
that the conversation that we're having now is
attractive to somebody out there. And they could
say, I can identify with that. I can relate to
that. So we're giving all different aspects of
Very Good. The dark side of charisma can sometimes
be misused to manipulate or dominate rather than
empower. How do you help leaders ensure their
charisma is authentic and aligned with creating
psychologically safe spaces, not just compliance?
Yes, I think part of the danger with charisma,
this is what we're talking about, we're talking
about dark charisma, is that it's often a start
of a substance that actually people They talk
a good fight, but they can't back it up. So when
I'm working with leaders or anybody in fact,
it's about how you present yourself. Absolutely,
it's the perception you create, but it's also
you've got to have those fundamental technical
or professional skills to back that up. You can't
just rely on your personality. So I think that's
the first thing to say in terms of dark charisma.
But dark charisma really isn't charisma in the
truest sense because it's not actually interested
in creating mutually beneficial outcomes. It's
all about, how can I present myself in the way
that gets what I want from you? And so it tends
to be quite short -termist. When we want to charm
somebody because there's something they've got
that we want, then we're very charismatic. But
actually, when there are no longer interests
to us, then we show our true colours because
we're not actually interested in other people.
There are lots of examples of this in politics
and history where people have led other people
down very dangerous paths. because they follow
them, believing those people address all of their
hopes or concerns. And actually that's backfired
because in a lot of these circumstances, those
individuals have only been manipulating people
in order to accentuate their own desires and
aspirations. So the kind of charisma that we
teach people is about creating these mutually
beneficial outcomes. So I'm not just generating
outcomes that suit me, but I'm thinking about
the longer term prospects of our relationship.
How is it that we can both get as much of what
we need? as possible from these interactions
that we have. So there's a positive to it, believe
it or not. Dark charisma benefits the individuals
who are manifesting that, but it does often reap
benefits for other people in the short term.
But the allure of it tends to wear off because
people promise things that they can't deliver
on in the long term, but also People create echo
chambers around them. They create acolytes. And
the risk with that is that people no longer challenge
people to behave. And all of us have to be aware
of our behavior because when it's left unchecked,
it can take us into all kinds of areas that perhaps
weren't our initial intention. Again, we can
look at figures from history to see that actually,
the more influence they got, the more their behaviors
became more extreme and the bigger risk that
they ultimately meant for the people. Very, very
good. I really like this. Okay, so Book Insights,
your latest book, Charisma Unlocked, was published
recently. What inspired you to write it and what's
one actionable tip from the book that listeners
can apply immediately? So the motivation for
the book was it's really a culmination of the
last 20 years' work. So articles I've written,
experiences of having worked with people from
a broad range of particularly sort of professional
backgrounds. So it's really sort of bringing
all of those different bits of learning experience
and research together in a way that is hopefully
really accessible for people. So it's not a book
you necessarily have to read from cover to cover.
There are sections related to different topics
and different scenarios. So you can sort of dip
in and dip, and it's very sort of practical,
actionable tips. And I guess if there was one
thing that I would encourage people to take away
from this book, it's almost so obvious that we
don't do it. And it's really this idea of showing
curiosity for other people. And you think about
lots of different environments in which we find
ourselves, whether it's networking, a business
environment, whether it's meeting somebody at
a party and having a conversation with them.
A lot of the time, we feel under pressure to
perform. So in other words, to talk at people,
to ask people, you know, sort of stuck questions.
What do you do for a living? Those kinds of things.
And actually, when we show curiosity, when we
show genuine interest in people when we ask open
-ended questions, when we do some of the things
we've spoken about earlier, such as allowing
space for people to express themselves, drilling
down more into the feelings that sit behind people's
preferences or concerns. All of these things
not only help us to better understand how somebody
else ticks, but it takes the pressure off us
in terms of conversations. Conversations don't
dry up and actually then gives us material to
demonstrate interest, to validate other people,
and to further people's interests and motivations.
So again, we're aligning ourselves with people.
We're making ourselves useful to people. And
it's by giving out to other people that ultimately
we create those longer -term sustainable relationships
that also really benefit for us. So it's avoiding
the short -termism and it's avoiding this talking
out people. It's talking with people and creating
something fresh in terms of our interactions
with them. So you took all of your past experiences
and knowledge and put it in this book, which
probably a lot of stuff we just talked about
in the previous questions. And that's what I
want to do too, because I have so much experience.
I have 24 years experience in coaching, executive
life coaching. I want to put it in a book and
I have it in my brain. It's very easy to do,
you know, it's just a matter of getting it on
paper. It's finding the time, isn't it? Definitely
recommend it because it's really interesting.
When you start writing it down for other people
to read, Number one, it's reaffirming. Wow, I
didn't know I knew so much. But number two, when
you're trying to explain these things to other
people, it also helps you to really sort of crystallize
what you already know and to make it sharper.
So definitely really rewarding experience. I
definitely recommend when you have the time to
do that. OK, next question, personal growth.
What's one lesson you've learned from your own
personal and professional growth that you wish
you'd learn earlier in your career? Yeah, so
I'd say it's really about, and this is sort of,
I guess, the work of Carol Dweck. It's embracing
this idea of the great mindset. So in other words,
most of us, me included, our natural response
is when we have setbacks or when we're criticized,
is to be defensive. It's either to beat ourselves
up about things or to push back when people are
giving us feedback or to actively avoid feedback
in the first place. And actually what I've found
is that as uncomfortable as it can be, embracing
those things actually accelerates your learning,
accelerates your progress. When you acknowledge
your fallibility, but you don't beat yourself
up about it, you pick yourself up and say, how
can I learn from this? You fast track your development.
And the more that you do that, the more you embrace
the idea of learning from setbacks, the more
you embrace people's feedback, actually, it doesn't
hurt as much. You get the value from it without
necessarily... There's the same level of negative
impact that you do when you're trying to avoid
these things or you try and push back on them.
So really sort of harnessing that growth mindset.
What can I learn from this setback? What can
I learn from this feedback is really, really
important. So that's really the thing that I'd
encourage people to reflect on from today. And
also the big thing, because I do very, a lot
of times it turns into very inner work. So it's
really just a process. So because I did something
in the past and then I learned from it, that
triggers me to do another thing. And then and
then I learned from that thing. And then that
triggers me to do another thing, whether it's
a lesson that I've learned or a goal that I want
to accomplish or maybe just a thought. that I
have. One thought triggers another. I mean, there's
so many examples of this. Absolutely. It's a
catalyst, isn't it? The more we do these things,
the more it becomes a natural way of behaving.
And that's just my opportunity to grow in my
life and in my mindset and evolve. That's what
it's all about, as far as I'm concerned. It's
about evolving, isn't it? And growing. Just like
the human race grows, evolves. So each decade
or each century, We're completely different.
If we were the same, then it would be a big problem.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's the way that things should
be. Right. We can't be like that. And it's the
same thing with the individual person, which
is really how it starts anyway. Future goals,
looking ahead, what's the next big project or
goal you're excited about and how does it align
with your mission? Yeah, so it's the next big
project really, two things. One is launching
some workshops around charisma around the globe,
working with individuals and groups of people,
so we're going to be launching and promoting
that. And then another book towards the end of
the year, and this book will be around what we
call the corporate athlete, is how can you as
an individual within a business, again, maximise
your potential? So that's building on things
like psychological resilience, there'll be elements
of charisma in there, there'll be elements of
how you engage and elevate other people. So it's
all about create this positive wave. So all the
time, but we and the people we're coming to contact
with are working more towards achieving our peak
performance and our maximum potential. Very nice.
I like it. And that's really what my goal is.
And I think most coaches and anybody that tries
to help anybody, I think that's what their goal
is, is to get more and more positive every time
you talk to the person, every session. And that
knows, first of all, it knows to me that I'm
doing my job. That's ultimately what I want.
And then knowing that we don't know if the person
is going to be at that certain space at that
time, which really nobody knows because nobody's
a psychic. And that's the bottom line. These
are all very, very good things that we spoke
about. They're very positive. And I really hope
that somebody can get. Something out of it whether
it's just one or two sentences that we said it
doesn't have to be everything in the question
it doesn't have to be a whole topic. If you pull
out one or two sentences the listener from this
podcast if they pull out one or two sentences
and they say this definitely has to do with me
then they can they know that they can be help
that's the whole thing with it. So, would you
like to say anything in closing and how can they
get in touch with you? Well, I just want to say
thank you for having me on the show today. As
you say, I'll be really pleased if even just
one or two people can get some value from today's
conversation. That would be fantastic for me.
But if anybody wants to find anything more about
me or the work that I do, you can see my website
address on my background here. It's www .richard
-rede .com. Very nice. Okay. And are you on social
media also? Yeah, you can also find me on LinkedIn.
So go and just look for me under that name, Richard
Reed, and you'll be able to find me. OK, and
you don't have a podcast. You just do guest.
Yes. Yeah, that's another thing. Planes to launch
a podcast later in the year, but not not right
now. Yeah, OK. So if you're listening and you
want to have Richard as your guest on your podcast,
then definitely get in touch with them, because
I really enjoyed this conversation and it was
good. So I hope somebody can get something out
of it. Thanks, Debbie. Okay, so thank you very
much.